I have to laugh,
because of an interesting
experience
my husband and I
just had at a restaurant.
The
chemistry
with the waiter
did not exist.
It isn't that you need to have
chemistry
with a waiter,
but when the waiter has a
chemistry
with you,
he waits on you.
It happened as soon as we sat down at the table,
as he accessed us
as he looked at the 4 top
with only the 2 of us sitting there,
which meant
lower check & lower tip~
which meant
that we didn't have
chemistry~
but the table next to us
had
chemistry
with him~
as soon as they filled the 4 top
and ordered 1000 appetizers.
It was so obvious, that it was comical.
After we were finished eating,
we got his attention,
by accident,
and then he wanted
chemistry~
"Are you celebrating a birthday"
"Is it a special day"
"Do you want dessert"~
came rolling off his lips~
as we answered with no thank you,
even though I wanted to say it was our 50th wedding anniversary
(to throw him for a loop)
and thanks for asking!
He asked again...
Oh we had his attention,
before he would close out our check
Well we waited and waited
for our check,
as he was loving on the 4 top next to us,
and then he remembered we were there
and then we got the check
he got his tip
and we left
and I laughed
all the way home
To be so obvious
to be treated
as insignificant,
but just because
we were treated as
insignificant
did not make us insignificant.
Just because we didn't have a
chemistry
with the waiter
didn't make us
less than
or more than
him.
It was just what it was~
but oh the power
of being treated as one less than,
can have in our hearts
if we forget
Whose we are.
If you disappoint someone~
it doesn't make you a disappointment
If you make a mistake~
it doesn't make you a mistake
If you
don't have
chemistry
with someone,
you just don't have
chemistry
with someone
Having Chemistry~
a connection with someone
a loving cherished feeling
and being treated as such
with
no words needed to be said
because
you just know
because you have
chemistry~
The Lord your God in your midst, The Mighty One, will save; He will rejoice over you with gladness, He will quiet you with His love, He will rejoice over you with singing.” Zephaniah 3:17
Having Chemistry~
So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. Isaiah 41:10
Having Chemistry~
He is my loving God and my fortress, my stronghold and my deliverer, my shield, in whom I take refuge, who subdues peoples under me. Psalm 144:2
Having Chemistry~
Praise be to God, who has not rejected my prayer or withheld his love from me! Psalm 66:20
Having Chemistry~
I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me.
The life I now live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God,
who loved me and gave Himself for me. Galatians 2:20
Having Chemistry~
When I consider your heavens, the work of your fingers, the moon and the stars, which you have set in place, what is mankind that you are mindful of them,
human beings that you care for them? Psalm 8:3-4
And the best part of
Having Chemistry~
with your
Creator is that
you can sit at a table for 10,
just you,
and not order anything
and
you will be waited on
like royalty
because
you have
Chemistry
with the
One
Who says
you matter
always.
From Rags to Riches~
Chemistry 101